Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Women’s Code Bill in Kerala – Some thoughts

Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate. Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your children will be like olive shoots around your table

The last few days the suggestions by the committee with Retired Justice V R Krishna Iyer as the chair person came flashing in all the news channels and newspapers.

Following are some of the highlights in this bill that came up in the media

You can be imprisoned for impregnating your own wife. Worst, you could be branded as a `legally disqualified person’ for the third child onwards. INR 10,000 or three months simple’ imprisonment deserves to be slapped on the expectant father of a third child
The Kerala Women’s Code Bill 2011 maintains that violation of family norms will be deemed a legal disqualification and parents will not be eligible to receive any benefits from government. It insists on that religious and political outfits should not be allowed to discourage population planning and any such effort on their part should be censured by the governor. The report reads, “No person or institution shall use religion, region, sect, cast, cult or other ulterior inducements for the bearing of more children”.

Here are some thoughts on it.

What about the equal status and rights guaranteed by the constitution for each and every citizen of India which helps to rule out any discriminations based on gender, caste, religion or any factors? Will the government be ready to punish this committee for putting forward an idea which goes against the constitution of India instead of punishing a big daddy?

Why does the committee want anybody, or any group to be punished if they want to express their will against this law? That statement is again contradicting the foundation of Indian constitution right? If any group can make a rule and say that the rule cannot be changed forever, then why should we have democracy, elections, legislative members who can make rules and political parties which are defined as a group of people who comes into power by majority and who tries to implement their views? If any party can make a rule and say that no more rules and they are the rulers forever, is that dictatorship?

Earlier days, government tried to control population by promoting sterilizations by means of gifting people whoever comes forward to accept the procedure. Now government wants to force population control by dictating, no more than one or two kids. Tomorrow who can guarantee that the government will not try to simply kill some people on theory that there are not enough resources for everyone? If population is a problem, why do the governments want to take initiatives for child welfare and actions to control child death rate? If population or the count of human beings is termed as a problem, then should we fear that the government may later silently promote activities that terminate life – I mean any sort of actions that ends in killing fellow beings? If the government says only two kids, will they provide every need for the two human lives till their death? Will this bill silently promote Gender discrimination by means of abortion?

What happened to our principles of sharing the resources? Will you be killing your fellow beings when you feel that you do not have enough resources to share with your brothers and sisters? What is happening to the high morality of our culture which always held humanity high? Ever did your parent asked you not satisfy your hunger just because you are the third or fourth child? Will any one of us be ready to commit suicide because your brothers and sisters do not have enough? If we are not willing to do that, who are we to prevent the life and growth for our own satisfaction?

Hey pity human beings, have you not learned from the example of Hitler who tried to bring up a better race by killing others in extermination camps, gas chambers and all? Instead of spending time with fortune tellers and future predictors why don’t you look back into the history? How many times have you seen civilizations predict the end, the dooms day. How you not learned from the numerous failed scientific predictions that predicted the end of availability of so many things? Have you not seen that the human race succeeded through it?

How many different ways have you tried to increase productions of whatever you consumed, but miserably failed? How many ways have you tried to exterminate mosquitoes and pests and failed miserably? Now are you trying to kill yourself? Don’t you know that “any kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and a house divided against itself will fall”?


Do you enjoy the beauty of the life in the above picture or do you feel that you should kill some cranes from the above picture to make it more beautiful?

11 comments:

  1. Some of my immediate thoughts...

    This is one of the bills with most ridiculous suggestions.

    If they wanted to protect the rights of woman, let the govt first provide a safe living environment for women and children in Kerala. Can they ensure safetey? Can they ensure that Soumya's , Shali's , Kathiroor, Sooryanellis wont get repeated in Kerala?

    Can they enure that our mothers, sisters, daughters and wifes can travel safely in Kerala ?

    Can they ensure that childern are not abused?

    Can they ensure that pregnant woman and children are not ending up in mal nutrition?

    Can they ensure that abortion is not happening in Kerala?

    Can they ensure that no more man drinks alcohol and leave wife and children in starvation repeat?

    Can they ensure that children get enough education, irrespective of caste, creed, economic background?

    These are what Keralites wanted.

    Coming to 2 children policy and its consequences.

    This is one of the most ridiculous and injustice part of the bill.

    How many of these people who drafted the bill can justify their parents who gave birth to more
    than two children?

    They may be asking their parents the same Qstns. Will they fine their parents and put them in jail for giving birth to more than two children?

    I will not be surprised, if these people come back tomorrow and say that children got birth after the first two should be put in jail or oven killed?

    I am the fourth child of my parents, who are these so called respectable people to tell that only two are allowed?

    Or this bill is also after protecting drafting committes parents and siblings?

    VR Krishaniyar' had six siblings. Can we bring this law pre dated till 1900 and put he/ his parents in jail?

    people should recognise their age and background and earn respect for them selvees.

    Now, suppose If this law is passed, if the second birth has two or more babies, will these people ask parents to kill the remaining childern?

    I will fight till my last breath to protect the freedom of giving birth and upbringing. One Iyer and a bench of 'wise'men cannot destroy that freedom.

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  2. This is a non sense bill and seems like age has affected the function of his brain.
    Goverment or people can not assume the role of God in the life of people.
    Nobody has the right to touch on the state of 'life" of any one let it be a person born or unborn, as our life we got as a free gift.

    At any cost this BILL can not be considered.
    How dare is he to bring such bill infront of the people of Kerala?
    Regards
    Denny

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  3. Thanks Binoy any Denny for sharing your thoughts on this matter. Today I read on the newspaper (Manorama) that one of the committee member – Retired Captian Sherina Navas – reveals that this controversial matter never came for any discussion in any of the 4 sittings of the committee where everybody attended. Rt. Captain Sherina Navas also tells that Retired Judge Krishna Iyer will be sending request to the Government to remote this controversial subject from the proposed bill.

    But at the same time, under the same news heading there is another inset column which says “Krishna Iyer tells that he will never remove those sections from the bill, and he does not fear any Christian congregations on this matter.

    Suresh Gopi’s reaction on this matter came in newspaper in the last few days where he claims that there is a Hidden Agenda behind this bill, and the bill cannot be agreed on any circumstances. Now I also feel that there is some Hidden Agenda behind this bill.

    --Deepu George V

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  4. EVER HEARD OF POPULATION EXPLOSION AND THE DANGERS ASSOCIATED WITH IT? FOR A WORLD THAT ALREADY HAS PROBLEMS LIKE RUNNING OUT OF WATER, FOOD AND EMPLOYMENT, YOU GUYS ARE BEING RIDICULOUS. MILLIONS OF PEOPLE ARE DYING IN STARVATION AND YOU ARE THINKING OF HOW TO CONTRIBUTE TO IT. FOR THE FIRST COMMENT "SOUMYAS AND SHALIS AND SOORYANELLIS WILL BE INCREASING. A COUNTRY CANT TAKE CARE OF 100 CRORE AND HOW ARE THEY GOING TO TAKE CARE OF 200.

    IF THE POPULATION INCREASES. MORE CHILDREN WILL BE ABUSED. MORE "RAPISTS AND KILLERS" WILL EMERGE".

    IF SOMEBODY IS TALKING ABOUT THE RIGHTS OF CITIZENS TO EXIST, HOW IN THE WORLD CAN ONE EXIST IF THERE ARE NO JOBS, NO FOOD AND NO WATER JUST BECAUSE EVERYONE MAKES 10 CHILDREN?

    THE MORE PEOPLE MEANS MORE CONSUMPTION, THAT MEANS EARLY RUNNIGN OUT OF ANYTHING. CHINA HAS GOT THE WIND OF THIS AND NOW THEY HAVE LAWS AGAINST THIS.

    "THIS IS DESTRUCTION OF A COUNTRY IN THE NAME OF RELIGION" POOR PEOPLE WILL STARVE TO DEATH AND RICH PEOPLE WITH 10 CUBS WILL GET THE FOOD.

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  5. Dear Ben Seven,
    Ever heard of any body coming with solid proof that the problem is Population explosion?
    Ever heard of problems where countries facing lack of Human Resources and trying to promote emigration!!!
    Was it me or the commission who spoke about religion?
    When you say that “POOR PEOPLE WILL STARVE TO DEATH AND RICH PEOPLE WITH 10 CUBS WILL GET THE FOOD” are you suggesting that the poor should kill the rich or are you suggesting that the rich should kill the poor, or are you suggesting that the rich and poor should kill themselves, are you suggesting that some of us do suicide to give food to others?
    Have you heard of any government in any country around you feeding the people properly by tax paid money? Have you not read the news about some villages in middle part of India where people sell their sisters or niece to some other family to make sure they get another girl as bride on exchange, just because there are no enough girls around? Have you never heard of these villages where the male female ration has gone drastically unnatural to a ratio of 1000:250 or less just because of great thinking humans and their “selection” mentality?
    It is fantastic that you believe “fewer girls” means child and sexual more. Have you never heard of China going to doom on behalf of population control?
    --Deepu George V

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  6. I CANT BELIEVE YOU ARE TALKING LIKE A 2 YEAR OLD CHILD. IF YOU NEVER HEARD OF POPULATION EXPLOSION (WHICH IS COMING IN THE FUTURE BECAUSE OF PEOPLE LIKE YOU) I’D SUGGEST THAT YOU GO TO NEAREST LIBRARY AND GET A BOOK ON IT. I HAVE SEEN AND READ AND HEARD ALL ABOUT WHAT HUMAN POPULATION GROWTH CAN CAUSE. IF YOU CAN THINK, JUST THINK THAN 100 PEOPLE WANT 100 MEALS AND 1000 PEOPLE WANT 1000. THE NUMBER OF RESOURCES ON EARTH IS NOT GOING TO GROW. THEREFORE, IT WILL RUN OUT IF more people wants to be fed. I AM NOT SUGGESTING TO KILL ANYONE. IF YOU UNDERSTAND, WHAT I SAID WAS – “ DON’T BRING CHILDREN TO HELL WHERE THERE IS NO FOOD AND WATER AND JOBS TO LIVE”—THIS MEANS IF POPULATION INCREASES, RICH PEOPLE WILL BUY FOOD FROM ANYWHERE WHEREAS POOR WILL STARVE TO DEATH. “””” AM I GETTING THROUGH YOU AT ALL????” I HAVE NEVER USED THE WORD KILL. ITS BETTER NOT TO GIVE BIRTH THAN MAKE THE CHILD DIE OF HUNGER. (THAT’S WHAT I SAID)
    THERE EXIST SOME COUNTRIES WHERE POPULATION IS LOW.” BUT THIS IS INDIA”. THE BILL IS INDIAN. AND INDIA ALREADY HAS 120 CRORE PEOPLE. DON’T COMPARE OTHER COUNTRIES TO THIS. 120 CRORE IS AN UNIMAGINABLE NUMBER. ITS TOO MUCH.
    WHO TOLD YOU THAT MAKING 10 CHILDREN WILL BRING MORE GIRLS? THE REAL TRUTH BEHING LESS FEMALES IS SOME PEOPLE DO NOT WANT FEMALE CHILD. THEY ARE KILLING THEM EVEN BEFROE THEY ARE BORN. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH POPULATION CONTROL. MAKING MORE CHILDREN WOULD NOT BRING MORE FEMALE (THAT’S STUPID)
    I HAVE NEVER USED THE WORD “FEWER GIRLS”. WHAT I SAID WAS MORE WOMEN WILL BE PRESENT WHO MIGHT BE ABUSED BY MORE CRIMINALS WHEN MORE PEOPLE ARE BORN. HAVE YOU EVER HEARD THAT CHINA HAS 1 CHILD POLICY? ITS BECASE THERE ARE NO BACKSTABBERS THERE. CHINA HAS EFFECTIVELY CONTROLLED HER POPULATION GROWTH AND HER STRONG, EMERGING ECONOMY WILL BE ABLE TO SUSTAIN HER HUGE POPULATION
    SUMMARY – WHEN POPULATION INCREASES, NATURAL RESOURCES RUNS OUT. FOOD, WATER, LAND, JOBS. THEN PEOPLE START TO KILL EACH OTHER FOR THESE THINGS. SOCIETY WILL BE COMPLETELY CHAOS. WHY ONLY MINORITIES ARE AGAINST CONTROLLING POPULATION?? WHY DON’T CHRISTIANS YOU PROVIDE FOOD FOR MILLIONS OF DYING AFRICAN CHILDREN RATHER THAN CONSUMING MORE??

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  7. Dear Ben Seven,

    Never in the world has any human being starved to death because of population, all the starvation and death that you see in any country are due political fights and wars that comes out of it.
    Have you not seen that Chinese people come out of China because of the bad policy?
    The starvation, death, wars and all these mass level crimes were there in the world from the starting of human history because of the lust of people for more material property.

    I am the third Son of a father who is the 7th child out of 7 of my grandfather and a mother who is the 4th child out of 6th of my grandmother, and we know how to share what we have between ourselves and with our neighbours.

    When people grow as the only 1 or 2 of their parents, the do not learn to share things, but instead try to get everything from others.

    You said that you do not want to bring another child to this hell. That indirectly says that somebody is making hell out of the world.

    Come out of the library and please travel around the world by walking, by bus, or by train, or by air and see yourself how much have we humans occupied, and how vast the earth is.

    If you are know the basic of agriculture, you will learn that any direct or indirect involvement of humans to control any thing will be balanced very soon by nature in some other way. Humans - your pity calculations are so bad, don't think that you are too smart to calculate and predict the end of resources while you are not yet able to completely understand your material brain itself.

    Any where in the history you will not see a family dying out of hunger becuase they are more, they die out of hunger when others prevent them to eat, and others do that not because they are starving, but just because the evil in themselves.

    Starvation war and hunger prevails the entire human history which did not start in the last 100 years, but for thousand or million years ago.

    According to you, we should teach the story of the old man and his sons who taught them that "united we stand, divided we fall" in a different way. Perhaps, you should teach - "the less we are, the more we have, and the more lavish are we"
    --Deepu George V

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  8. Dear Ben Seven,

    You have wrote two times about China's policy of 1 child. let me repeat what I said, have you never read in any of your libraries that they are soon going to run out of human resources? Have you ever seen China srhinking and being friendly with other world countries even after decades of implementing this 1 child policy? Are they not still silently invading other countries?

    --Deepu George V

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  9. THAT IS THE STUPIDEST THING I HAVE EVER HEARD.DONT USE THE SENTENCE ”NEVER IN THE WORLD” . ITS PAST. WE ARE TALKING ABOUT FUTURE. MILLIONS OF PEOPLE ARE DYING DUE TO STARVATION, WHAT THEY DO NOT TALK IS THAT THERE ARE 2 CAUSES, POVERTY AND NON AVAILIABILITY OF FOOD DUE TO PEOPLE WHO ARE CONSUMING MORE. LIKE THE BIG FAMILIES. EVEN A KINDERGARDEN KID KNOWS THAT. CHINESE PEOPLE NEVER GOES OUT OF CHINA DUE TO THEIR POPULATION POLICY. CHINA IS NEGATIVE IN SOME OTHER WAYS LIKE A “STRICT MILITARY TYPE” . STARVATION IS GOING TO BE IN DANGEROUS FORM DUE TO SOME GUYS WHO REPRODUCE AND DESTROY THE WHOLE BALANCE OF THE WORLD. YOU MIGHT BE THE THIRD SON, BUT YOU WILL DO ANYTHING FOR YOUR CHILDREN WHEN THEY ARE STARVING (I MEAN ANY ONE). ANYONE WILL FIGHT FOR FOOD WHEN IT RUNS OUT. YOU NEED TO FEED YOUR 10 CHILDREN WHEN NEIGHBOUR IS STRUGGLING TO FEED THEIR 2. THAT IS HOW FIGHT BEGINS. IF YOU NEED EXAMPLES JUST TAKE A LOOK AT AFRICA WHERE THEY HAVE LESS FOOD. WHO SAID 2 CHILDREN DO NOT KNOW HOW TO SHARE? ITS STUPID. I HAVE SEEN MANY INCLUDING MY OWN EXPERIENCE. STOP SAYING NONSENSE. IF YOU KNOW HOW TO SHARE WHY DON’T YOU SHARE MONEY AND FOOD FOR THOSE AFRICAN CHILDREN??
    WHEN I TRAVEL AROUND, I SEE PEOPLE WHO ARE STRUGGLING TO LIVE IN THE WORLD. THE EARTH MUST BE VAST, BUT ITS NOT THAT VAST TO FEED ALL THE GROWING POPULATION. IF YOU ARE LITERATE, YOU KNOW THAT 2/3 OF EARTH IS SALT WATER, WHICH YOU CANNOT USE FOR ANYTHING. THE REST IS ICE AND DESERTS. YOU DO NOT NEED TO GET OUT OF LIBRARY TO KNOW THESE THINGS. GROWING POPULATION IS A THREAT TO THE WHOLE WORLD AND EVERYBODY (EXCEPT PEOPLE LIKE YOU) KNOW THAT.
    YOUR THEORY OF NATURE’S BALANCE WAS RIDICULOUS. HAVE YOU EVER SEEN NATURE REPAIRING THE OZONE LAYER HOLES? HAVE YOU EVER SEEN NATURE BRINGING THE EXITINCT SPECIES? DO YOU EVEN KNOW HOW MUCH “AGRICULTURAL LAND “ IS SHRINKING DUE TO BUILIDNG HOUSES FOR THESE OVERPOPULATED SPECIES????. YOU DO NOT NEED EINSTEN BRAIN TO PREDICT THE END OF NATURAL RESOURCES. EVEN ANIMALS KNOW THAT. – WHEN WE USE SOMETHING, IT RUNS OUT.
    THE DIESEL AND PETROL YOU ARE USING WILL BE OUT IN NEXT 10 YEARS.IT WILL TAKE ANOTHER MILLION YEARS TO REBUILD THEM.
    THE 1% FRESH WATER WILL NOT BE AVAILABLE FOR ALL THESE BIG FAMILIES.
    SOIL CONTAMINATION, WATER POLLUTION, AIR POLLUTION WILL INCREASE.
    PEOPLE WILL DESTROY FOREST, WHICH I HOPE YOU KNOW IS ESSENTIAL FOR EARTH, FOR BUILDING HOUSES FOR THEIR 10 CHILDREN.
    I HAVE READ ABOUT HISTORY WHERE I SEE FAMILIES DYING. WHY ARE OTHERS PREVENTING THEM TO EAT?? BECAUSE THEY WANT MORE. YOU WILL NOT FIND -AIDS -OR -SARS -OR -H1N1- IN THE HISTORY. DOES THAT MEANS THEY ARE NOT PREVAILING NOW?
    ------------ MOST IMPORTANT THING. DON’T USE THE WORD “DID YOU EVER SEE”. BECAUSE ITS DIFFERENT FROM WHAT WE ARE ”GOING TO SEE” POPULATION WAS LESS IN THE ANCIENT TIMES. YOU WONT SEE ITS DEFECTS THEN.

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  10. WHY ARE YOU BRINGING THE RELIGIOUS SAYINGS HERE? THIS IS SCIENCE. AND ITS TRUE THAT “ MORE WE ARE, MORE WE WANT, THE FASTER WE RUN OUT” THAT’S WHAT I AM TRYING TO TEACH.
    ONE CHILD POLICY IS DIFFERENT FROM FRIENDLY RELATIONS. WHO TOLD YOU THAT THEY ARE GOING TO RUN OUT OF HUMAN RESOURCES??? 1,331,460,000 DO YOU KNOW HOW BIG THAT NUMBER IS? ALSO DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA THAT US, THE MOST AWESOME COUNTRY HAS ONLY 1/3 OF THE POPULATION INDIA HAS??? THEN WHERE IS INDIA COMPARED TO US?? YOU DO NOT NEED 100 CRORE TO DEVELOP. CHINA IS NEVER GOING TO RUN OUT OF HUMAN RESOURCES. THEIR POPULATION HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH INVASION. DID CHINA THINK THAT – WE ARE RUNNING OUT OF PEOPLE, LETS INVADE OTHER COUNTRIES??--YOU ARE SAYING THINGS THAT CANNOT BE CONNECTED TO EVEN THE MATTER WE ARE DISCUSSING.
    BEFORE YOU POST A REPLY, JUST READ WHAT WORLD SAYS:
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Overpopulation
    http://www.thecircleforhumanity.net/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=104:overpopulation-drives-global-starvation&catid=25:main-info&lang=en
    http://www.booksaboutthefuture.com/overpopulation-problems.htm
    http://sixpak.org/vince/overpopulation.html
    http://www.buzzle.com/articles/overpopulation-problems.html
    http://web.grinnell.edu/courses/gds/f03/gds111-01/gdsintro/countryreport/student_projects/india/gds/overpopulation.html
    http://www.buzzle.com/articles/overpopulation-problems.html
    http://www.buzzle.com/articles/overpopulation-effects.html

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  11. It is definitely a meaningful and timely discussion. As we all know population effects the prosperity and well-being of the fellow citizens of any country. And that is why developing countries like India, promotes small families as we are over populated in the region. We are doing it by educating and teachings. We wont need to enforce it by law or by punishments. It is not the democratic way of doing it. We shall continue the process of teachings and awareness and we can see the changes by looking at the young generation small familes.

    Krishna Iyer's intensions are clear and to the point. But we can not enforce it by punishments. It should be condemned to the highest level. However we should do more to promote to control the population.

    There is no point to use the word "kill", when we talk about the population control. There are simple and meaningfull methods to doing it. The ultimate point here is that the people should be well aware and educated on it.

    We are proud to be a democratic country and are responsible to protect it as well.

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